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Why Are We Like We Are?

By August 17, 2024Commentary5 min read

I may spend a little too much time wondering about some pretty obtuse questions.  After watching what Hamas did in Israel, Russia in Ukraine, China to Uighurs, the ongoing slaughters in Africa;And my mind returned to a train of thought I have had for some time.  I think I know why humans here on Earth have the characteristics we have in regard to our fellow humans.  While we are capable of empathy, kindness, even sacrifice of self for others; we are also incredibly brutal to each other, wantonly slaughtering, raping and assaulting on the thinnest of pretexts.  We are essentially tribal; that is how we evolved.  Within the tribe, generally our best behavior will appear.  But toward the “other”– members of a different tribe, our behavior is often nothing less than horrifying.  And today, tribe can be defined along any number of dimensions–religion, politics, ethnicity.

Evolution works slowly.  Modern society which makes possible a high standard of living for many people is a very recent development even in the context of the million years of so of the current dominant human sub-species.  For almost all of the time since the most rudimentary humans arose, survival has been a matter of competing over scarce resources.  Water and easily obtainable food were in short supply.  Our very human-ness–a unique intelligence and consciousness–is an outgrowth of that competition.  Problem solvers had a very distinct advantage, and one solution to struggling for limited resources is simply to eliminate the competition.

Distinct groups or tribes of humans likely arose because as the original group became larger and resources within the feasible travel range became stretched, the group would split and a sub-group would move to a new territory.  This “solution” to the problem of finding adequate resources led to the relatively rapid spread of humans across not just Africa, but what is now Europe, Asia, Australia and the Americas.  But these various sub-groups would inevitably abut each other’s territory and friction would arise over resource claims.  Growing numbers of people within a group and increasing numbers of groups exacerbated the potential conflict.  If we are honest, what better way to win the intensifying resource battle than killing the competition.  And since many forms of complex life on Earth, including humans, survive by eating other life forms, we probably had some genetic pre-disposition to killing in any event.

So I believe that early and ongoing human evolution favored those who were willing to without hesitation use violence against “outsiders”, i.e., those members of another tribe who were or even might be contesting for the same resources.  And, as I said, evolution is slow, so even though now with our advanced technologies we should be able to provide a good standard of living for all humans, and cooperate to reach that goal, instead we continue to behave as we are evolutionarily programmed–to lump people into tribes and be willing to behave atrociously toward those perceived to not be in our tribe.   If we survive long enough, maybe there will be some distinct evolutionary advantage of cooperation that overwhelms the competitive urge and genes.

But what I really have pondered is this: do all worlds in our universe have the same fate in regard to any complex life that might arise?  Is there no better world for life?  Is this dynamic of competition among and within life forms inevitable on any world?  Is that a fundamental precept of how evolution works–that competition drives selection of certain behaviors and encoding of those behaviors in genes, assuming that complex life anywhere must have some means of replicating and of adapting to changing environmental circumstances?  We might imagine a world with such a plethora of food and other resources that the competition dynamic does not arise to a significant extent.  But would such a world have a corresponding rise in the number of life forms and members in each life form?  Does the number and types of life forms bear some relationship to the level of resources on a world.  Could there be conscious life that does not need food or water or is based on chemicals that are so  abundantly present that conflict over resources doesn’t arise?  The pessimist would say the universe appears pretty uniform in the laws, including chemical elements, that make it up, so it would seem very likely that all worlds harboring life are similar.  The pessimist sees that on Earth up to current days, one group of humans being violent toward other groups of humans is often rewarded and rarely punished.

The optimist in me wants to hope that there are alternate approaches to the evolution and history of life; that there are gentler, kinder species of life elsewhere.  The optimist in me wants to believe that even on Earth, humans might persist long enough to evolve to a less violent species.  The realist says it looks unlikely right now.

Kevin Roche

Author Kevin Roche

The Healthy Skeptic is a website about the health care system, and is written by Kevin Roche, who has many years of experience working in the health industry through Roche Consulting, LLC. Mr. Roche is available to assist health care companies through consulting arrangements and may be reached at khroche@healthy-skeptic.com.

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  • George O'Har says:

    Nicely thought-out. Food for thought.

  • Michael Montgomery says:

    Dear Kevin,

    Deep thoughts indeed though maybe it is all Fat Timmy’s fault (just kidding).
    You may be interested in a couple of resources. One is a great short book, Grouped by Paul Adams. It discusses how we relate to others among other things. The other is a very long book that I am just getting into, The World, A Family History of Humanity by Simon Sebag Montefiore.
    What you describe is the lag or lack of cultural evolution behind genetic/epigenetic evolution. There are some signs that Western Civilization is a developing antidote to our destructive tendencies; as women are an influence in civilizing men (not that women can be just as bad sometimes).
    The basics of life that address our worst nature are Religion, Family, Friends, and Purpose and modern civilization is a mixed bag in addressing those. We are tending away from the first and second and self destructing on the development of resources, like energy, that could free us from scarcity (to some extent). Still, I don’t think we are too far gone yet.
    A couple of great examples and beacons of hope are the world our Founders gave us and a smaller example in Israel.
    Even genetically, maybe we should think of viruses, bacteria, and parasites; they tend to be quite deadly at first but eventually develop a somewhat symbiotic relationship with their hosts.
    Your questions about extraterrestrial life have been answered in two ways: one, that civilizations develop until they kill themselves or at least keep returning to the Stone Age and two, that civilizations develop until they build themselves a Dyson sphere and are undetectable. A recent sort of discussion of this is the 3 Body problem trilogy which postulates a universe of extremely hostile civilizations that attempt to destroy each other as a survival strategy.
    I am an optimist though not always sure why, partly a deep faith in G-d.

  • Hari says:

    I enjoy reading your commentary and greatly respect your opinions but I think you’re a little out of your league on this subject. As for intelligent life on other planets, the physicist Enrico Fermi wondered about this when he asked “where are they?” because we should have been contacted by now.
    Intelligent life may be very rare-and just maybe, we’re it.

    • Kevin Roche says:

      not sure what you mean by out of my league. I think my speculation is pretty informed, I have a good understanding of evolution, particularly at the genetic level, I certainly keep up with the latest developments in astrophysics and over 74 yearss I have had plenty of time to observe huan behavior.

  • rubbertayers says:

    I like to watch animal behavior as compared to human. I have lots of deer coming through my yard and they generally get along pretty well with each other unless one of them is looking for sex or getting to close to another one’s baby. I’m always blown away by the mothering instinct of deer and foxes and birds and really most animals.

  • JT says:

    As long as we have elitists (who can afford to segregate themselves from their decisions) running world governments, forcing all of the ‘tribes’ to mix together, for our sake, because we’re too stupid to travel on order to enjoy other cultures … you’re going to have ‘tribal’ behavior. Your beloved Minnesota / Somalia being a perfect example …

    The name of their game is continued chaos and disruption, to keep the peasants pre-occupied as they accumulate wealth and control. Immigration, war, gender, race, religion, climate, socioeconomics, just to name a few. We will always behave in ways that protect ourselves from losing our children, our homes, our food, our culture. This is baked into all animals.

    Tell me which zoo mixes the animals … for their benefit? We need to elect new zookeepers!

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